Depressed about dating prospects
When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.
I haven’t said one word about it since but I am wondering how long to wait.
Silly logic aside, I would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing I asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you EXCLUSIVE and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other?
Until the conversation happens, I would say it is fair for a guy to keep his profile up.
We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.
With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.
I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.
I wish these readers had written me beforehand because this is often the worst approach to take (at least from this guy’s point-of-view). I do have some advice but let’s first look at one reader’s email and user this as an example for better understanding where you stand with your guy: I have been dating a man I met on for about 6 weeks – we go out regularly and he is always quick to make plans with me.
If you have agreed to be exclusive, things are easy: you just need to ask him to take it down!
If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.