Dating aloof woman
Only after months of analyzing what the heck happened did I realize that I never wanted to experience that again.
Thenceforth, I added confidence as a “must-have” on my checklist. I was treated better, respected more, and I learned more.
Of course, thoughtfulness means delivering attention and interest…but in heartfelt ways that she can’t predict, at the times she needs it most.
Basically, instead of being over the top with flashy gifts, expensive dinners, and obvious compliments, true thoughtfulness is telling her that you were thinking of her today when she wasn’t around(by the way…
if you’re thinking about her when she’s not around, don’t waste her time trying to become her boyfriend). Any high-wire artist will tell you that success is a delicate balancing act.
Yet most men fail miserably with great women right out of the gate by not behaving in a “balanced” way toward them…
In fact, sometimes it’s easier to identify a deeply confident man by what he do, rather than what he does do. Don’t get me wrong—some games will always play a part in relationships. But there’s a difference between innocent, coy flirting, and actively manipulating your girlfriend’s mind.
“[A confident guy] doesn’t play [these types of] games because he doesn’t need to,” Chlipala says.
”) or constantly calling, texting, and emailing a woman.But when it comes to whether she’ll see you as boyfriend material, thoughtfulness takes on a whole other meaning.It’s your ability to pay attention to her in unexpected ways — at unexpected times — because it’s genuinely in your heart to do it.That in mind, here come the three secret “tests” that every woman uses (even if she doesn’t realize it) to determine whether you are boyfriend material: Test #1: Are You Present?When it comes to first dates, most guys waste precious time and opportunities with great women by not actually “being there” at all.