Dating a man 18 years older
If they don't like it, just remember you are an adult and are able to make your own decisions. And i hope you guys are wearing protection if you guys are having intercourse.
Just say that you appreciate their concern and their advice, but this is what you want. The least thing you want right now is being prego - at a young age. I mean if your bf is helping you in one way or another good, even better. What has happened with your parents and how do you feel about your decision to date someone so much older? I have a 19 year old dating a 35 year old and I'm so upset I'm sick.
Your BF is not in a relationship with your parents.
You can take what your parents say under consideration, you can use their OPINION as a giude post.
They may even want to make sure that you don't get lost in this. As a parent my biggest concern is that my child is safe. I am 24 and my boyfriend that I am living with is 43.
As long as you can see that from their end, the talk should be ok. His parents have met me and like me even if they don't agree with the living arrangement.
im 19 old girl n im dating a 23 yr old boy i truly lv him n he also lv me n his family lv me all of them they lv me but im facing a problem my mother doesn't knw tht im hv a boyfriend so people wht i suppose 2 do Well why don't you want to tell your mom? You are 19 focus yourself on making things happen, rather than when are things are going to happen to me? You shouldn't prioritize no boys until they proven themselves they can fully take care of you. Dear Concerned Mother, I am as concerned as you are but I'm on the other side of the story.
In fact, we AGREE with everyone else: YES, it is inappropriate. This is the last thing I planned on in my young life, believe me. I had been heart broken once, staying up till wee hours in the morning, crying my eyes sore before I could fell asleep..I haven't yet mustered the courage to share the situation with those I care for most, and it has become a very heave burden. It's you, that will go through most of the changes. wake up all sudden every night , breaking out cold sweat, I couldn't even have a proper nap without being hunt by dreams.Thank you for letting me share it before I face the challenges ahead. My ex was nvr a good guy, but i kept grudge against my parents for not letting me to take charge of my life, I know we wont end well, but my parent not only NEVER LISTEN, they cold towards me throughout the days, we never speak, we never look eye too eye.The more you are confident in YOU, the less the bad stuff affects your decisions. A loving reciprocal relationship is tough to come by. I hope that when i do tell my parents they'll see how much i love him, and how sure i am in our relationship. There is no way on this earth that you can get them to 'like' the idea of you dating a much older guy. Going in and talking with them, you have realize BEFOREHAND that they can say whatever they feel.That they may explode, that they may just adore it. You are in a relationship with your guy, you feel it's the right thing to do, you are not in a relationship with your parents.